Monthly Archives: July 2012

Dear Katie… “An Open Letter to an ‘unintentional’ racist”


@katieisperfect On behalf of women of color who are judged, discredited, discriminated against and ignored based on their hue, thanks for your distasteful attempt at being funny. It’s quite likely that you weren’t trying to be racist, and you may even have “black friends” but the captions that you used with that photo were so disrespectful intentional or not. I’d hate for these tweets to haunt you on a future occasion where your actions today are used against you in a very serious situation. Tweets are just fun and games until you do something else and then they get used against you.

P.S.

In the future, try Queen Helene’s Mint Julep Face Mask. It works wonders. You’re welcome.

 

Thank You BET… You got this one RIGHT


This Whitney tribute is what I’ve been waiting for since our beloved Whitney passed. I guess I can say I accept she’s gone now, like for real. Here on my birthday, I celebrate THE VOICE. I celebrate the one who taught me that I was the future. As I listen to her mother sing her heart out while I type this message, I’m reminded that I must live life as it happens. Tomorrow isn’t promised. This bittersweet tribute is another reminder of the beauty of right now, because once it’s gone, it really is GONE… Just like Auntie Whitney.

Thank You…

 

A Julicious Birthday


Happy JULY 1st!!!

My birthday!!! Its the most exciting day of the year (DON’T DEBATE ME)…

I wanted to do something different. I always give back on for my birthday. Usually by doing some type of service or making a monetary donation. This year is different though. This year, I collected the mailing addresses of some very important and inspirational people I’ve met to send them a lil something. I have one 1 week to complete this task. I call it 34 for 34.

Choosing 34 people was HARD! Not because I couldn’t think of 34, but because I couldn’t stop crying, smiling and laughing as I created my list, and because there are a few who are no longer here who should be on the list. Their deaths make it even more imperative to reach out to the 34. You see, ya gotta learn to “give people their flowers while they’re still living and able to smell them.”  So I guess losing a few people has inspired me to share with several who have shaped my heart through their gift of friendship.

These folks are the ones who remind me of, “Our Deepest Fear…”, they inspire, motivate, straighten me and most importantly they are people I love and cherish!

On this birthday, I celebrate the gift of friendship!! I love ya… Now go show love to those you love as a gift in my honor. Let’em know you care while ya can!!

Oh and if you want to buy me something, donate $4 dollars to my “favorite campaign” this year Happy Birthday Jules DONATE, and then let me know you did. (insert cheesy smile)

“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small doesn’t serve the world. There’s nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It’s not just in some of us; it’s in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we’re liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.” ~  Marianne Williamson

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