In 2009 Trey Songz belted out lyrics indicating that he was SO good in bed that whoever slept with him was going to think he invented sex.  Now in 2012 he has changed his tune to sex ain’t better than love. This Sunday I had a conversation with a group of friends, and the men agreed that sex is good but it isn’t a determining factor in a relationship because, in their words: “I can get pussy whenever I want it, from just about anybody I want it from.”  They went on to say that when you have it “all” at home and still go out to have sex with someone else, it’s just greed (and they were referring to men AND women).